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“My relationship with Herb began about 10 years ago when he began having monthly sessions of massage. It was a privilege to have a wonderful exchange...Read More »
1 of 11 | Posted by: Evan Williams - West Hartford, CT

“I had the pleasure of working with Herb about 40 years ago. Our paths crossed at Nat'l Paint in East Hartford where Herb was one of our best interior...Read More »
2 of 11 | Posted by: Nancy Seagrave - Enfield, CT

“Dear Julie,So sorry to hear of your father's passing. I'll always remember your father's kindness and sage advice. I hope you and your family are...Read More »
3 of 11 | Posted by: Jennifer Nelson - Scotland, CT

“So sorry to hear your dad passed away. He will always be Father Ruston to me and I cherish all my time I had with him and your mom growing up in...Read More »
4 of 11 | Posted by: Stuart Gilman - CT

“Julie, So sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved Dad. You always light up when you talk about him, and we are all here for you to share memories...Read More »
5 of 11 | Posted by: Rebecca Shea - Gales Ferry, CT

“Hi Dave, I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your father. My thoughts and prayer are with you and your family. Your friend, Nathalie ”
6 of 11 | Posted by: Nathalie Amarel (Exposto) - CT

“Dear Julie, David and Families,I am saddened to read of Herb's death. Although we had little face to face contact, we did keep in touch with cards...Read More »
7 of 11 | Posted by: David Larson - Niantic, CT

“So sorry to hear of the passing of Herb. I will always have the memory of him on Labor Day, sitting by the fire, 'camping' with us. He was the most...Read More »
8 of 11 | Posted by: Nancy Watson - FL - Friend

“With sadness, I read this morning the passing of your Dad. .He was not only a Great Dad,, he also was a True Gentleman. It was a great pleasure...Read More »
9 of 11 | Posted by: Bob Skenderian - Naples, FL

“Julie, Dave and the entire Ristow and LaCava families, Barbara and I send our sincerest condolances on the loss of your Father, Grandfather and Uncle...Read More »
10 of 11 | Posted by: Michael Lynch - Vernon, CT

“To all of the Ristows and LaCava'sHerb was a wonderful man. We will remember him fondly. Always celebrating his birthday over Labor Day camping...Read More »
11 of 11 | Posted by: Sue, Charlie and Philip Van Vlack - FL


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Herbert David Ristow, of West Hartford and Bloomfield, died on August 8, 2017 surrounded by family at the distinguished age of 92. Born on Septmeber 3, 1924, Herb would be the first to say he lived a good life. Herb had a lifelong passion for design. Starting at age 19, he worked at G. Fox & Company and then A.J. Skendarian and maintained his own consulting business "H. Ristow Interiors." Herb served his country in the U.S. Army for 21 years, beginning in 1948. He was honorably discharged as a Chief Warrant Officer. He taught design and decoration at Hillyer College (now the University of Hartford) and taught for the Connecticut Department of Education and continuing education classes for the town of West Hartford. Herb married Margorie May Wakeman in 1954. He spoke often of her since her death in 1997. Herb enjoyed visiting with family and would often bring home made cakes or pies. He is survived by his daughter Julie LaCava and her husband Dominic and their children Sara and her husband Jacob Lieberman; Joseph and his fiancee Jessica Foster; and Amy, as well as his son David Ristow and his wife Marilyn and their children Jessica and her fiance Brian Allaire; and Rebecca.

Calling hours will be held at Taylor & Modeen Funeral Home, 136 South Main Street, West Hartford on Thursday, August 10th from 5:00-7:00 pm. Funeral services will be held at Bethany Lutheran Church, 1655 Boulevard, West Hartford on Friday August 11th at 9:30 am, followed by a burial at Fairview Cemetery, West Hartford. Herb's kind-hearted nature, thoughtfulness, and smile will be missed by all who had the good fortune of crossing his path. For directions and online condolences, please visit www.taylorandmodeen.com.